I wanna be scene, Not a poser?

I'm A black male and I wanna be Scene I know I can pull it of but I don't want to come off as a poser just because I listen to weird music. (I'm not talking weird Like crazy weird I mean like I'm probably the only one who's probably ever heard it) I already where skinny jeans stuff like that kinda think like the kids who jerk. Well the only thing I'd really be changing is my hair. Still I don't want to be a poser I've never been one and I'm not gonna start now.